Still in reflection for a portion of day after being hit Friday morning from a young man who missed his red light, I read a post on social media by a man who wrote of how incredible of a woman he had had married. His wife had also recently been in a car accident; rear-ended by an older lady. Of course, her first reaction could have been  like the one her husband wanted to give, anger and upset. Something I similarly could have done Friday morning. But it wouldn't help.

Instead, the man's wife responded with compassion. The older lady was a cancer patient, struggling with the treatment process. Lots of other live events going on in as well, which never helps the stress of serious health issues, the lady was simply overwhelmed. The wife took the time to care, listen and share... ultimately, the kindness of a stranger and the love of God. When the police arrived on the scene the two ladies were in tears and laughter, carrying on as if they had been friends for much longer than the few moments that had passed while they awaited. After the formalities of the accident were complete, the ladies exchanged hugs. Law enforcement officers stood in amazement.

As the husband writes and cops relayed their experience, so many times these situations have the potential to spiral out of control, with emotions and intensity and police, like most circumstances have little idea what they are about to walk into when conflict arises among the citizenry.

But it was a moment for God to be glorified... all because one woman put thought to how her response would help resolve the matter rather than escalate it.

This was what I intended to write about before church this morning, and if you don't think God doesn't have a sense of humor, this morning's message was on having the B.E.S.T marriage. 

Blessing
Edifying
Sharing
Touch.

Principles that can be extended to any human interaction, when you think about it. Bless and encourage. Share life and show affection and care one for another. How much more effective would the church be in putting into greater practice, such a perspective.

Thanks, for joining with me, that this #effectiveSunday would be a day to increase our capacity to put greater thought into our first response. May we consider others before ourselves, as Christ did for us, when He was sent by the Father. Pray anger and frustration and confusion would not gain a foothold, nor the corresponding stronghold in our lives, but that our mind would be like that of Christ and His love in our hearts would flow from our tongues. In our relationships, marriages, families, friends and coworkers, may the church seek in greater degree, to be a blessing and not a curse, to encourage rather than destroy; to share rather than isolate, to care rather than battle.

To be an example of Christ
That many may come to Christ.
For the glory of God.

- PNC

Forgive me for the musically-inspired prayer again this morning, but as we were out and about yesterday as a family and I had the music on my phone playing through the car stereo, this song started playing. As you're hearing, it's a great up-beat, rock song, played by a band I would have loved to have seen in concert. However, as I listened to the lyrics in light of yesterday's prayer about the world NEEDING Jesus, I thought... what incredible lyrics to consider in light of the effectiveness and efficiency of the church.

"I wish I'd done it a long time ago. I wish I'd given my life to the Lord. I shoulda done it... a long time ago."

There are many things in life that we look about upon and think "coulda, shoulda, woulda." Many circumstances that cause reflection and I wish, if only, gee isn't there a way...

Even secular music acknowledges this life's dilemma... wasn't it Cher, that sang, "if I could turn back time..."

Pastor, even when not given a "direct, salvation message", continues to remind us, that upon hearing the Word of Lord, today is the day of salvation. There are many things worth considering putting off a decision, or "sleeping on it" or there's a process to doing so; yet salvation, in light of eternity is not guaranteed.

Not to mention, the plans and purposes God has for us... what do we miss out on in by post-poning a decision for Jesus Christ? What do we miss out on by putting God on hold and saying no to what He has called us to do and be and accomplish in this world for His glory? Pray such would not be the case.

On this #effectiveSunday, pray today would be the day of salvation for many. May the not delay in coming to Christ. May the Word of the Lord be preached, heard and receive a positive response. Pray lives would be changed for eternity; that God would be glorified and draw many to Himself. May the power of the Cross, through Jesus' life and resurrection break down strongholds and hearts and minds and that today would be a day of freedom in Jesus Christ.

Grateful, to be able to say:
I gave my life to Lord... a long time ago.
For His glory!

- PNC

Perhaps part 3, in the unplanned series of prayers that started Friday morning, as we've once again, faced horrific tragedy and the barrage of commentary that naturally ensues. The question came to me, after not really given much thought for today's post... that after all the commentary and conversations, differing perspectives, opinions and experiences, I was left with this on the forefront of my mind:

At one point does criticism cease to move us toward solutions and becomes criticism for criticism's sake?

Hows does one handle the critic who uses criticism for the sake of themselves? For they seemingly come across as being more interested in continuing the problem (or at least putting it in the spotlight) rather than acknowledging that the time has come to move from criticizer to solver.

There's an element of wisdom in knowing the time for solutions.
There's an element of leadership in focusing on solutions.
There's an element of prayer in understanding imperfect people do not create perfection.

In the church world...
In the business world...
In our culture and society...
In our congregation and community...

What's the point of exposing a flaw that nobody bothers to fix?
What's the point of noticing an error that nobody will correct?
What's the point of stating a problem that nobody wants to solve?

We all have value and worth, but eventually contempt arises for the critic who does nothing but life up to the their title. As though, it's in their spirit, as a default modus operandi. Such make the possibility of effective and efficient difficult. The drive for correction may be good for a season, but taken to extreme (like anything else), you lose the balance... of doing it right; doing it well; being effective, being efficient, and having the greatest impact. All of which are usually the desired goals anyway, for whatever a reasonable person or group is trying to accomplish

Pray this #effectiveSunday, that the church would not be found having or harboring a critical spirit. May they find a balance, as they look at problems, whether within the church or outside it; that there would be a focus on solutions. Pray the church would not ruin their witness and impact by continuing criticism just for the sake of it, or for their own. Pray wisdom for people in leadership roles; as people look to them for direction, insight and answers; that their own criticism would not stand in the way of a clear analysis of the present and a correspondingly clear vision of the future. Pray, that in these times of serious problems, that we would have serious people, interested in solving them rather than telling whose to blame for them.

That we may all become more like Christ.
And point others to Him.
For the glory of God;
Whose help we desperately need.

- PNC

Last night would have been a great deal more funny, had I done my rendition of Larry The Cucumber, of VeggieTale fame, singing, "Where is my hairbrush?" Technically, it should have been my soon to be 8-yr old daughter, as we couldn't find her favorite hairbrush in the post-bath aftermath of de-tangling. Oh the joys of parenthood and schedules, and making sure you have everything ready, for wherever it is you are headed, as you head out the door... even in the moments that follow, as we put the final touches on getting ready for church.

Even so... it got me thinking about churches, struggling because they don't have the right equipment. People get fussy, as my daughter did, because what's available isn't the most effective, productive or efficient. Things take longer, they are more frustrating; they require more effort and more agony... more tears and pain; you get the idea.

For pastors and parishioners alike, it quickly becomes a not-so-fun process. And on more pithy prayer posts on Bring Me 70, having the right equipment for the job is a critical priority for churches to be effective. It's made all the more difficult when there are a lack of finances and people to handle it.

So, pray, this #effectiveSunday, for churches struggling to make do with where they are. For whatever equipment, people and finances are available, pray God would do the miraculous. May equipment last long enough until this is provision for better; pray grace for the people as they overcome challenges. May God grant them creativity as they stare the challenges in the face. Pray God's blessing on church finances; not as our pastor prays, that church would heap it upon themselves, but that they may be a blessing to those around them and the community.

Right equipment
For the work of the Lord
For the glory of God.

- PNC

I continue to be amazed at what God drops in my spirit for these prayer posts. Yesterday was a full afternoon and it wasn't until mid-evening that I realized I hadn't considered or inquired the direction for what you are about to read. Upon acknowledging I needed His help (as I do with every post) it wasn't but moments that it occurred.

We stayed in the area we were in yesterday, to attend my father-in-laws church softball games. The last game was a make-up game from a previous rain-delay and the schedule required them to play on a different field. As we were walking, my father-in-law talked with a young player about what transpired in the previous game. The young player had switched-hit. He started hitting left-handed, instead of right-handed. The acknowledgement? He was getting more hits and getting to the plate more often.

The chat didn't take but a couple moments but it was enough to be inspired. How much more, do such change-ups help in the church world? Sometimes things are effective and efficient, but not as much as they could or should occur. Other times, they are neither effective or efficient. It may take a great deal of work to figure it. It may take one simple change in the approach to the matter and suddenly you find yourself in the groove.

Whatever it is, whatever it may look like, the change may be necessary.
It may be hard to acknowledge.
It may be difficult to navigate.
It may be frustrating to figure out.
It may be exhausting to finish.

None of that however, denies the fact that it very well, could totally be worth it in the end.
Not to mention work out for the better long-term, leaving you with a single regret...

"why didn't I try this sooner?"

Pray this #effectiveSunday, for the miraculous in churches and ministries. For whatever in their operation that isn't working, whether at all or as well as it should or could; may it get sorted out. With the help and power of God, wise counsel and hard work all covered in prayer; may God grant to churches the ability to see-through to completion the work and ministry He has called them. Pray for a renewed sense of strength. Pray for an increased sense of creativity. May the changes that happen, be for the glory of God; not simple for the pleasure of man. May their efforts continue to point people to Christ and draw people closer to God.

For even in Christ's ministry;
While the miracles looked similar,
There was a change-up each time...
To meet people where they were.
For the glory of God.

- PNC

So, I have this album on a mix tape, made from when cassettes were still popular and I put it in the BOSE car stereo system (that still sounds great after 217,xxx miles of enjoyment!) on Thursday or Friday. Upon listening to the lyrics, I thought... what a great prayer for #effectiveSunday.

Forgive me, I had every intention of getting this posted before leaving for church this morning and suffice to say, it didn't quite happen. That said, at the close of service, as Pastor gave his final remarks on part 2, of a summer series titled, Summer Smarts, I knew why I hadn't made my self-imposed deadline. Speaking this #FathersDay2016 on the subject of sex and sexual purity in the lives of men and their marriages and relationships, his final remarks included the idea that we should have a hatred for sin.

As Christian artist Mylon Lefevre performed on his album Crack The Sky, we need to "love God and hate sin". In 2016, it's increasingly hard for people to understand the distinction, so reread what was said, not what you think you heard. Sin is destructive. Sexual sin is incredibly destructive. It should bother us deeply what sexual immorality does to the mind and the soul, not to mention the long term affects on the body.

There is no hatred for the sinner, nor for the unbeliever; nor for the Christian who has failed, in this area or any other matter. No hatred for the person who disagrees with us! But it shouldn't come to such as place as to be so acceptable in society as it has become.

For the church and the Christian alike, it should be very upsetting... to the soul and to the spirit.

Read the lyrics, to the song you've listened to in this #effectiveSunday #pray4pastors post:

I was raised in America and streets were safe // And the children learn to pray, learn to pray
Things have changed and it's not the same // The handle of God that we felt is gone away, gone away

Let's get upset and turn this country upside down // Let's get upset with Jesus he'll return this land around

We used to blush at vulgarity // And now we watch while the TV plays all night, plays all night
We used to stand with our backbone strong // Now the drugs turn our courage into fright, it's not right

Let's get upset and turn this country upside down // Let's get upset with Jesus he'll return this land around

If we as Christians pray the Lord will clear the way // We are examples to the rest
And if we place God first, He will heal all our hurts // And we will see our country blessed, yeah

Let's get upset and turn this country upside down // Let's get upset with Jesus he'll return this land around

Let's get upset, time to get upset, yeah // Let's get upset, let's get upset // Let's get upset, let's get upset


While I'm tempted to let the lyrics stand on it's on as a prayer, I can't quite do so. Thus...

...pray, this #effectiveSunday, especially for Fathers, in their marriages, whether single, divorced, remarried, step-families, blended families; pray for a rising up for a sexual movement towards purity; towards holiness. Pray for a renewed commitment to faithfulness and fidelity, that a standard of righteousness would rise again. May it start with the church; that God would work in hearts and lives of men to draw closer to God than ever before; leaving behind the evil desires of the heart and renewed in the mind by the washing and cleansing of the Word of God. Pray the miraculous; that the hand of God would return as we stand and rise to turn from our wicked ways and seek the face of God on our knees in prayer.

For the health of the body
For the health of the home
For the health of the nation.
For the glory of God.

- PNC

Well, now that the community pools is open, the most popular question for the past week has been, "can we go swimming?"  Friday night for 2.5 hrs. Yesterday afternoon for another 3.5 hrs. Of course, Mom had 2 work, so I was on pool detail and we had a riot!  Yesterday, though we tagged team them.  My wife took them over, until it got time for her to get ready, which is when I walked over and we traded places.

This meant, I was also, again, on the hook for helping clean-up upon our return so they'd be ready for church this morning. My oldest daughter has beautiful hair. Soon to be 8 yrs old, it's always been long, which is great except when trying to handle it after a bath. This is the hair, that upon the days and weeks following her birth, people would walk up to us, whenever we were in public spaces and comment on the beauty of her hair. One such patron, even asked what product we put in used on her!!  As if, we had just recently taken our newborn to the hair salon!

What occurred to me last night as I was trying to help make sure she got all the chlorine out, was that pastors need our help too. Sometimes there are things they don't know how to do or can't do quite so well, for any number of reasons, but because they are in a position of ownership, they think they have to figure it out on their own. They try, but you can tell something is amiss.

Other times, they may not realize they need assistance and so it takes an outsider willing to step up and offer their help and service; to get it done, to do it right, to make it look right. And it can be a hard proposition to make. And like I experience with my daughter, there may be a battle over the assistance. But it still needs to be done; it still needs to be figured out. Especially if we as the church, attempt to be more effective and efficient in ministry.

Pray, this #effectiveSunday, for pastors struggling in areas of church life, and leadership. For whatever reason may lie behind their not wanting or desiring or recognizing their need for help, may God bring to light, that He is strong in their weakness. May their be a grace as they ask for help and assistance, and the same grace for when people make offers to help and to aid. Pray a collaborative effort within the body of Christ; to do the work of the Lord with excellence. May the love and grace of God cover the difficult conversations and decisions; that even in spite of faults and failures, God would again, make all things work together.

For those who love Him.
For those called according to His purpose.
For His glory and the cause of Jesus Christ.

- PNC

Let me preface this post by saying, I love my kids.

Let me follow that statement with, I'm pretty sure a few new gray hairs turned in my gotee yesterday.

Last night, I had en epiphany last night about grandparents.

They have much more patience with grand-kids, than their parents do. And the reason for this is simple... the kids don't pull with Grandpa and Grandma what they push with the parents.

Correspondingly, grand-parenting comes with an internal joy... it's the satisfaction that the time is around the corner, when the parents will return for their kids and exchange the pleasant goodbyes of "here they are... have fun!"  Like they've been wound up.

What is it, that parents can turn their face to 50 sheds of red or blue in giving instruction and direction to their children resulting in peace and quiet for no longer than a few seconds. Then it starts again. And after a decent nights rest, its starts again in the morning. Such as final preparations for church.

As last night came to a close... does this happen in churches? Do pastors feel this way? Are congregations anything like kids? The teen-age attitude that begins long before their age is in the teens. The rough-housing. The desire of the same toy. The disagreement over which cartoon to watch on Netflix.

[insert your priceless church conflict here]

If we haven't seen them, we've heard of them. And responded like parents. Seriously, this needs to be said? Repeated? How old are you? Why is this an issue? Did you not hear me the first time? Who's kid are you?

It's hard to be effective and efficient, as a parent or a pastor when it seems there is no growth. No progress. And the repetitious instruction and direction gets old... yet, must be maintained, if we expect in the long run for kids to grow up mature and healthy, and for the believer to have the same transpire in their faith.

Pray, this #effectiveSunday, that pastors and churches would experience healthy growth. In the maturity of their faith. In the ability to show compassion. In the efforts to express the love of Christ. May the frustrations of ministry and the repetition of issues, not detour or derail their focus. Pray for strength in the times of discouragement. May the church of Christ be one that brings honor and glory to God... in how we live our life; in how we point a lost and dying world to His life.

For the advancement of the gospel of Christ.

- PNC

It occurred to me last night (or perhaps Friday and it took me the whole day to remember the idea a second time) that there's one guaranteed way to become effective and efficient.

Repetition. A habit of repetition. Which normally happens through practice. And what isn't a practice exercise towards greatness, is likely, at the very least, a daily discipline.

Consider, this Memorial Day weekend, those who have served to protect and defend their country and lost their lives in said service. A lifestyle of daily disciplines. A phenomenal amount of practice and training in their area of expertise within the unit of their chosen branch of service.

Repetition until they have gotten it "right".
Repetition until they are at the top of their game.
Repetition until they are the standard of efficiency.
Repetition until they are the model of effectiveness.

Unrivaled competency. Unmatched proficiency.

The idea from Friday, was S.W.A.T. Special Weapons and Tactics. Not just training to do the complex job of law enforcement. Specialized training in highly developed tools that required skilled hands and even more, thoroughly skilled minds. When you discover your daily disciplines aren't quite up to the opposition; you realize there's yet another level... which means, no matter what you know; you're never done learning.

I'm amazed when I talk to my brother... I'm so impressed and proud of what he has accomplished in his career in the private sector... all through the grace of God. And yet the number of times he's told me he has sat in meetings, conferences and training seminars and felt comparatively small, considering the level of knowledge existent within the rest of the room, continues to increase.

Likewise, my pastor. 23+ years as the Senior Pastor of a single church. Youth pastor. Associate Pastor. Taken opportunities to speak at churches and conferences, serves on the board of a global non-profit organization, holds a key leadership position within our district offices; teaches those studying and preparing for ministry... it's incredible how God has used him, not only in leading our church, but in helping train, mentor and build other churches and pastors. And the number of times he has mentioned, sitting in meetings and conferences and feeling so not worthy to be in the presence of great minds, continues to ascend as well.

So whatever your ministry's level of effectiveness and efficiency... taking another look, will surely uncover yet more opportunity to increase your impact within the body of Christ. If you're at the top of your game, the quickest way to lose that status is top practicing; stop your daily routine. Don't. Stay the course. If you're not at the top of your game as a church, ministry or pastor, seek out what's missing and inquire of the Lord where you should put your first focus. For the little I think I know, and the tons I know that I don't; I know there is always a "what's next" moment. No matter our walk and how much farther along it seems the person next to us in the room seems to be; there's a reason God has you where you are. Just be faithful in your efforts to be effective and efficient.

And on this #effectiveSunday, we will join with you pastors in prayer, for God to help strengthen you as you continue to be faithful in your service. May God reveal areas for improvement in your ministry and utilize your strengths to help mentor other ministries who are struggling. Pray for wisdom and guidance; that while the church seeks for ways to make a greater impact; that church itself does not become routine. May all who enter, have a life-changing experience; an encounter with the one true, living God... not because of what man has done, but because God inhabits the praise of His people; and honors His promises. To those who seek Him. To those who love Him. To those who serve faithfully in what He has called and set before them to accomplish.

For eternal impact.
For the advancement of the Gospel of Jesus Christ.

- PNC

So, I yesterday morning, I experienced a pretty incredible miracle. Before anyone worries, it's not health related... just the amazing hand of protection by Almighty God. That said, it's one of those situations where you know something is wrong, but you don't think it's quite "that bad" until after and someone "in the know" looks into the matter and says, "Here's what's going on."

When you're reply is "Seriously? How in the world? I knew something was up, but not like that", you know that disaster has been averted. And it wasn't anything I did to avert it. As I began thinking about how to rectify the matter in the next few days, I considered the effectiveness of the church. Truly, at times, there is a grace over church leadership and operations. Perhaps everything isn't perfect; running like a well-oiled machine, but you're getting things done and getting were you need to go... even if it is running on borrowed time offered by the hand of God that includes a couple doses of grace.

And of course, in those moments, you know... you recognize as I did, something is amiss and not knowing eventually becomes more of a hassle than knowing and so you have to have a reality check and figure out where the problem exists. Sure, it may result in a worst-case scenario problem, but at least now you are "in the know" rather than in the dark and you can create a game-plan to moves you toward resolution(s)

It may take an outside observer to speak up, about the potential seriousness of the issue. It may take the Spirit of God, prompting you to search out someone who can help. Eventually, the not knowing will drive you more crazy that knowing. And that may not be true once you do know what's going on, but again, a fully-informed perspective is a more powerful place from which to act and negotiate than the position marked by a huge question mark.

Thus... pray, this #effectiveSunday, that whatever is going on in church, that is keeping the body of Christ from being effective and efficient, they would start with the area(s) that seem amiss. Pray they take the time to look into the matter; even if it requires a set of experienced eyes. May they be ready to have to act on the information that comes to light, if there is any intention of making the situation better or re-evaluating if anything should be done differently altogether. May the grace and protection of God be with them, even after they discover just how far they had traveled on borrowed time. Pray God's strength and protection in circumstances, the seriousness of which is not yet revealed. For as He cares for the birds of the air, how much more does He care for those He created in His image.

Situations will get better...
Operating as they should.
The grace and protection of God.
For His glory.

- PNC

Friday, you read about about the funeral we attended for a 37 year old cousin.

That morning, while you were reading, a friend from church posted on social media, a brother in the Lord from our church, had passed after a difficult battle with cancer. Saturday morning, as you were reading what seemed to me a follow-up post, about life on both sides of death, news of another friend hit hard.

Stephanie who we prayed about in this post a few weeks ago, passed... after her second battle with cancer. With something around 4000 friends on Facebook alone, needless to say, her page was lit up. Photos and condolences and memories of the impact she had made on people; through her friendship, her faith, her family... to smile in face of every difficulty; I dare say I think we envisioned her laughing in her spirit, at the days to come.

It's not that her life was easy, nor did she not realize the difficulty of life and that the struggle is real and emotions and reactions aren't always pleasant. But as thousands have pointed out, she remained faithful to her Creator; trusting the Giver of life.... on both sides of death.

And I watched again... as I did in February 2011, when a friend from college lost his wife and their child still in the womb, a few days after a terrible car accident... {read: here} the community and the body of Christ surround Stephanie's husband and daughter with love and support. Obviously, much of it in real time for those who are local to their life; lots more through the advent of technology, from people who wish they could be there in real life.

And we enter #effectiveSunday, it got me thinking last night... what is it about the passing of life that causes us all, to show more love, more compassion, more "like-able" personality traits, more sympathy, more empathy, more laughter at fond memories, more tears of sorrow and mourning. How quickly we forget the value of people until we realize we will never see them again, say hello again, wake up next to them, wake them up in their room across the hall, never meet for coffee again, never greet as they walk into church or the office again... never talk with them about the goodness and greatness of the love of God, if we hadn't done so already.

Is this we were reminded to make the most of every opportunity? For the days are evil?

The local marine dealer advertises "Life is short. Boats are cool".

The truth of the matter, is that "Life is short. God is good".

What better way for the church to be effective that to display the love, grace and compassion of God as much every other day as we do when we gather to celebrate Christ on Sunday and the passing of a dear life on any unexpected day of the week. Our lives should be just as much about Christ in relation to those around us every day, as it is about Christ on Sunday and others when we attend their wake. Granted most of us aren't that extreme, but we could certainly be a lot closer to Christ; and display the love of Christ... in everyday life, in everyday moments, in light of tragedy and loss that make days seem not so much like every other day. There are days that life takes a turn for the worse. Yet with our eyes focused on Christ, we know that even the worst days, God uses to accomplish His purposes; whereby He received the glory. And any day there is an opportunity to give glory to God, isn't really all that bad of a day. Even in the face of adversity; in the midst of tragedy, in the angst of loss and suffering, in the middle of the trial and fires of life... God is with you always unto the end of age; especially where two or three are gathered in His name.

Pray, this #effectiveSunday, that the church would indeed, display the love of Christ and His story to a lost and dying world, not just on Sunday, not just on the day of one's passing from this life to the next. Pray for the peace of God to surpass all understanding; on these past couple of days of loss and suffering; for those struggling to rely on God; for those having difficulty trusting God; for those who no longer desire to seek the face of God... may they sense His presence in the arms of His love and grace. May the body of Christ, be as we are called, to be His hands and feet extended. May this time of loss be a time of embrace; where people draw closer to God, whether it be again or for the first time. Pray the comfort of the Holy Spirit, to guard their hearts and minds; that bitterness and confusion would remain at bay; that the joy of the Lord would be their strength and their trust in Him unwavering.

Faithful and true, is He who has called us in His marvelous light.
Our lives for His righteousness.
For the glory of God.
For the cause of Jesus Christ.

- PNC

Today's prayer comes, courtesy of my favorite show, The West Wing. A few weeks ago, we talked about the importance of getting things started, about just getting to it and do it. As I reflected on my Saturday, I got to thinking about the sage advice that's oft repeated on planning.

Every minute spent planning saves 10 minutes in execution. And since it's only takes 10-12 minutes to plan you're day, you're talking about saving 2 hours worth of work... or increasing your productivity!!  Even if you don't have a full plan, at least have an idea? Consider this exchange on the show, between Will Bailey, who plays the role of Deputy Communications Director and Toby Ziegler, Communications Director. They are discussing a commercial by their political opponent.

Will:
I came in to show you the spots and to tell you I think we should run a counter-ad. I don't have an idea for one.

Toby:
Well get one! Have an idea! Don't come in here with half a thing and not be able to - you know, after you've walked me to the brink, and say 'we've got to do this, it's important, though I have no earthly idea how.' Like one of those guys who buys a big new thing, but doesn't really know how to get the most out of it!

Likewise, when just approach our day with a randomness, "I'll do this, maybe work on that", it allows for distractions. It throws us off our game and so easily, because we are not fully engaged. While reading a short clip about a study on productivity, there was conclusion called the Rule of 52 & 17. Work for 52 minutes and break for 17. The idea being that the 52 minutes of work is a sprint, like a high-intensity interval exercise program. 120% effort. Take a break. Repeat.  Rather than just going all day and burning out at some point.

So it goes with ministry. If there's not a game-plan, if there's not, like I had yesterday, at least an idea for how to approach a particular task, how would I stay motivated to keep working my way through the process of "this is done, what's next." It will be hard to be effective if all the bases aren't covered for what you are trying to accomplish. It will be hard to be efficient, if while you are trying to get things done, you keep passing by or going over the same area multiple times.

Have an idea. Find an approach. Make a plan. Get people on board to help get it done and get the most out of it.

Pray, this #effectiveSunday, that we would look at our lives and our ministries in light of what needs to be done, because it's important. Pray for creativity, planning and strategies, as churches and leadership prepare and pray they will make an impact in their communities and the world. Pray against a spirit of distraction and frustration; that people would remain focused on their areas of responsibility and expertise, like Nehemiah implemented during the rebuilding of the stone wall in Jerusalem. May the church accomplish much for the cause of Jesus Christ as we live life in ways that make much of Him and point others to Him, as the world takes notice, the difference Christ makes in the lives of those who have placed their hope and trust in Him alone.

Effective and efficient.
Because of an idea. By taking an approach. Having implemented a plan.
For the glory of God.

- PNC

ps: should you not know where to start; Ask Mom. Masters of multi-tasking. Executing plans. Getting things done. Having lots of idea. Happy Mother's Day.

I had a brief moment yesterday, as I pondered Saturday's prayer on friendly churches with Biblically-sound ministry.

Quite simply it came down to this...

How does a church plan to be effective if it is not first, friendly?
How will a church have an efficient ministry, based on something other than the Word of God?

People will have little to no desire in growing and strengthening their faith, in their walk with Jesus Christ if they are not surrounded by people who genuinely care for their well-being. People, in general, don't allow someone to speak into their life with whom they have zero rapport.

Consider this... we will get along better and have more in-depth, meaningful conversations if we both value each other as a person enough to know and share that there is more to life and more in store for them from God. Otherwise, a simple cold-shoulder, let alone anything resembling meanness, rudeness or harsh words will ruin the chance we will be friends.

Similarly, with ministry. What is ministry that isn't Scriptural? How do you point others to Christ? How do you help them discover the plans, purpose and promises of God for their lives? On what do you base principled living? Healthy relationships between God and man?

The passage from Timothy just came to mind, that talks about Scripture being inspired by God and " is useful for teaching, rebuking, correcting and training in righteousness" The purpose of this, is that the man of God may be adequate, equipped for every good work!

I like how the New Living Translation states it, as its language expounds on those four ideas...
[it] is useful to teach us what is true and to make us realize what is wrong in our lives. It corrects us when we are wrong and teaches us to do what is right.

I shared a statement online a while back of a realization I had regarding a point of frustration in my own life.

Life is like homework. Sometimes you need a friend to help you figure it out

I mention this, because just as I was thinking about what to type next, I thought about how people pick what they like and don't like and correspondingly apply (or don't) to their lives. What happens if you do that with homework? You start skipping sections or subjects altogether and it will kill your grade! How silly of us, to think we can skip and avoid sections and subjects within Scripture and think it won't have an adverse affect on our lives. What's more amazing, are the situations, circumstances and justifications we use to back up our position in trying to prove something has changed regarding the application of Scripture in today's culture.

So, pray this #effectiveSunday, as it bears repeating, for pastors to teach and preach the whole counsel of God. Pray the Holy Spirit move on hearts and lives that we would not be so quick to use Scripture to justify ourselves, but rather continual bring ourselves into alignment with God and what He has said in His Word. Pray for churches that have a culture of friendliness and bible-based ministry... may they not lose that environment, but foster and strengthen their standing for the cause of Christ. Even more, pray for churches struggling... where the environment is tense, critical, cold and frustrated; where Scripture is skipped, over-looked or perhaps rarely examined at all. May the power of God move on the hearts and minds of those involved in these circumstances and bring about change... a drawing unto Himself. May the veil be lifted and revelation come forth; that while it may be hard to receive, the moments of teaching, rebuking, correcting and training are helpful in the long-run for the health and success of the church.

The body of Christ. Functional. Healthy. Complete.
By the power of the Holy Spirit.
For the cause of Jesus Christ
To the glory of God, the Father.

- PNC

Dreaming has it's time.
Vision serves to give purpose.
Planning is a necessity.
Strategy is worthy of discussion and consideration.

Prayer should be a priority. Conversations occur and rightfully so.

Yet, ultimately, it's for nothing if you don't eventually get up, go out and do.

Dreaming alone doesn't do it. Having the vision may be a good starting point, but it will accomplish little without execution. Nothing gets built without plans And no battles are won without having an idea of what is going on in the field upon which you will soon face your opponent.

Prayer... well, look what we're doing daily. And whatever it is that you are trying to accomplish, whether you need to implore some people to help you or just hold you accountable, eventually you'll end up talking to someone about what you are doing, need to do or have already done.

In the end though, none of it matters nor is it worth the time to engage in, if you don't simply act and move towards "getting things done".

Procrastination, excuses and their other band of brothers that cause us to stall out or sometimes not even turn over can all check themselves at the door. They will do every thing except lead you, your organization and your church towards greater effectiveness and efficiency.

I know it's a battle. All too well. Trust me... I sitting here, thinking I would do well to re-read this for my own well-being after I'm done writing it. Somebody want to hold me accountable to doing so?

On this #effectiveSunday, pray for the church... the body of Christ as a whole and individuals, such as myself... may we be people of action, in what God has anointed us, called us, destined us to accomplish here on earth for His purpose in Heaven. May distractions, frustrations, and the issues of life not detour and distract us from taking steps towards our fulfilling our dreams, casting our visions, having conversations, implementing plans and navigating our way to completion. Pray the body of Christ be strengthened and moved to a greater life of prayer, for this life is not about us, but about what God desires for us and what He has planned and purposed for our lives. May we focus on Him anew and afresh, this day. May we make much of Christ.

Faith. In Action.
Prayer. In Action.
Love. In Action.
Speak truth. In Action.


For the glory of God. For the cause of Jesus Christ. God's speed as you go. In Him. In Faith. In Prayer. In deed.

Let me say this, first and foremost...

I can't thank each and every one of you enough, for storming heaven and continuing to do so, for my friend Stephanie and her family during this battle with cancer for her life. I am humbled by the number of visits, likes and shares as well as the compliments, for writing the sentiments we all share. It was clearly God, as tons more people have much closer relationships and friendships with her than I. That said, it was a banner day for the website and I can only hope that for as many read Bring Me 70 on Saturday for a friend in need, just as many and more will join in storming heaven as Pastors fight against burnout... a fight in which many lives also hang in the balance.

However, in the midst of such difficult circumstance, life continues to move; even when more pressing and eternal matters weigh on our minds and sadness encroaches our hearts. As such, I pretty much went all day not knowing... yes, again... what was in store for #effectiveSunday.

Then, later in the evening, as I pondered how much had been accomplished at our place in the prior 24 hours, as my wife and I finally got around to getting some items checked off the list that we had, quite frankly, been procrastinating about, I came to this simple, yet somehow profound realization. Not new... more like an "interesting how that works" moment, knowing in the back of my mind, there's also no other way for it to work.  So what's the realization, already?

You can't be efficient at anything that you don't start.
You won't know how effective you are at anything that you don't finish.

Measurements require movement and incomplete measurements don't really do much good at shining light on a picture that has yet to be finalized.

So...
... it is worthwhile to take a good look at the things one wishes to accomplish.
... it is worthwhile to establish some groundwork as to how you will proceed
... it is worthwhile to identify the goal-line.
... it is worthwhile to count the cost and weigh the risks
... it is worthwhile, before starting out, to determine your commitment level.

Commitment is practically a binary word. Partially-committed sounds like an oxymoron!

As I pointed out last night on a social media conversation, God wasn't partially-committed in His plan to send His Son, in order to bring humanity back into right relationship with Him. Nor, did Christ accept the suggestion to call in the angels to pull Him off the Cross. Both God and Christ were committed to the end.

Consider Jesus ministry:

Start to finish in just three years? Efficient
Forever changing the world? Effective

Pray, this #effectiveSunday, that the church and it's leadership would commit to prayer, what God has in store for them and the vision and plan He has for them to accomplish. Pray for sound, Biblical, responsible groundwork to be laid as game-plans and expectations are formulated and cast. Pray for big goal-lines; that stretch one's faith; that rely soley on God, may His will be revealed. Pray the church heed the wisdom of counting costs and considering risks. May their resolve be strong, as their faith is fortified... that God doesn't give more than we can hanlle; that He does equip those He calls, not based on what they bring to the table but what God can accomplish through those whose are remain fixed on Him. The author and finisher of our faith desires that we not only start that which He has planned for our lives, but more importantly, that we finish strong.

For the glory of God. For the cause of Jesus Christ. For the joy and the reward to hear, "Well done, good and faithful servant".

- PNC

Last night, I had the pleasure of joining my Dad to a Sportsman's Dinner, hosted by a local church in the area... one with quite a large footprint in the community doing great ministry. The dinner was phenomenal and they had a great turnout. There was one "process", for lack of a better word, that we were a little disappointed with as far as the raffles were concerned, but that aside, it was a great night.

The guest was pretty cool, though. A MLB player from the 60's came and talked his experience. That was slick.... with some back-stories, that you'd never hear second-hand as well as some great insights, as the season is just beginning.

So what's this have to do with #effectiveSunday? Nothing. Except towards the end of the night, when the Senior Pastor shared a few thoughts after the guest player was done; and the pastor's opening comment was a response to some of the choice words used by the player during his spotlight-moment. I don't know the man's state of heart in relation to God, perhaps he's saved and it was just "one of those things". Perhaps he's not. It wasn't obscene...but it dawned on me just how quick, that either 1) a Christian could take issue with some of his words spoken at an outreach event held in the church building or 2) those visiting, non-Christians, who aren't sure how to handle it. Perhaps not offended by it directly, but curious why it happened and thus, turned off to the church, as a result. Maybe not entirely, but enough to second guess.

To the pastors' credit, his response was light-hearted and jovial. He only shared for a few minutes a portion of his experience between ministry and real life, essentially what we pray for every day. Pastors struggle just like the rest of us and it's just as heavy-duty at times. As he closed, many guys raised their hands, acknowledging their desire to be remembered in prayer as they are facing things in life that require them to look to God and trust in Him... perhaps more than ever before; perhaps for the very first time.

Whatever the case may be, it was an interesting follow-up to #communitySaturday, regarding double-standards. That's the thing with Christianity and real life. You never know, in the balancing act of the two, what will trigger someone towards or away from the things of God and being in right relationship with Him. Perhaps, even balancing act is an odd phrase... as if you have one foot in each world. Which doesn't work, by the way. But the Son of God came to earth, and lived life as we do. Real God. Real Life. Quite simply it is possible to point people to God, through our lives. Yet, even Jesus prompted responses which were far different from people returning to God.

It bears repeating...

We can't walk on eggshells, but we can walk in ways that are more reflective of Christ Himself and less of the person proclaiming to follow Christ.

So... pray this #effectiveSunday, that the church would not be hindered in it's ability to impact lives for God, because of deeds and words that trigger someone to turn away from God or at least hesitate to turn to Him in the first place. Pray for a level of grace, that people would understand that while we serve and celebrate a loving and perfect God, we ourselves are not perfect... nor are we automatically loving. Pray that the spirit of offense does not get the best of people... both for the believer and those yet to believe. Pray that, much like one bad review doesn't discount the quality of a product or service, that people would not be so quick to dismiss Christianity, the importance of the church or the necessity for salvation and a relationship with Jesus Christ.

In this day and age, the church must rely all the more on God working the miraculous as the church wisely utilizes it's resources to impact the community for the cause of Christ. For the glory of God.

- PNC

I saw a great marquee the other day, in front of a church.. although, now I can't remember if I saw it, driving or scrolling through social media. (maybe both?!)

Come back and visit this Sunday. Easter is over, but He is still risen!

We prayed on Friday, about compelling the community to come... that the message of Christ is the only one that stands differently from all other religions.

Yesterday, we talked about portraying Christ to the community, rather than self; especially as culture continues to move further away from truth and absolute principles, while constantly promoting self.

How tragic, for all the prayer for the unsaved, the witness of our personal experience with Christ in our lives and the compassion of one's soul to continually invite them into relationship with Christ and on that journey of decision, they step into a congregation that contradicts the testimony and the invitation that was extended.

Church is a dynamic environment. I understand church cultures operate differently, but relationship with Christ is a state of growth and maturity. There's a difference between biblical disciplines and "going through the motions" routine. The latter can and often does, quickly become mundane... less than exciting. Much like a life without a plan and a purpose.

Just cruising. As if on auto-pilot. And this is one relationship that doesn't last long in automatic mode. If life a highway, there's twist and turns, fast curves, elevation changes, weather conditions, various hazards and obstacles... all of which is much more enjoyable with a manual transmission and a clutch! WHY?? Because you have a greater sense of the experience because it's an extra level of engagement. A greater sense of control. An increased level of focus. All of which prompts the driver to take the moment much more serious. As the intensity increases so does the fun, typically as well. 

Certainly, you are unsure at the start, but soon you're screaming in excitement...LET'S DO THAT AGAIN!!!

Nothing is worse, than an experience being praised by one; then when you finally decide to check it out, the experience is nothing like what you were told you should expect.

No points are awarded to those who are inconsistent. Credibility is lost. And the church, has lost enough of that over the years. Sadly. If you haven't experienced that reality for yourself, surely, someone only a couple degrees of separation from you has quite a tale to tell that will prove my point. So much for effective and efficient.

Pray, this #effectiveSunday, that while we don't get any points, guests and those curious to know more about God and who Jesus was then, is today and what He can accomplish in and through their life, will find the church consistent. In the message of Christ. In the life of the believer. May they see an active faith; not fake or superficial, but one that takes the issues of life, the struggles of regret, the disappointments of bad decisions and effects of situations that may or may not have been their own doing.... a faith that takes all their stuff and turns it to God. Pray that God miraculously makes something beautiful out of those who willingly humble themselves to a place where they can trust God with their mess. Pray that many would come to understand, their life is not the worst that God has seen. He is not the plumber, mechanic, dentist, bankruptcy lawyer, teacher having never seen this before in a customer, patient, client or student and is hesitant to do the work because it's unfamiliar.

God looks at every life, no matter the mess one has made of it and says, "Not only can I handle it; but you won't even recognize it when I am done. Only God trades our ashes for His beauty. Not just consistently, but for each and every life that comes to Him, through Jesus Christ. For these things, we pray. For the glory of God.

- PNC

It's Easter Sunday!

Jesus is alive. The Man whom you seek is not here, but He has risen. And returned to heaven to prepare a place for those who accept Him as the Lord & Savior of their soul.

Christ did, once and for all, what until that point, was done "regularly". A sacrifice. There had to be a death to pay for the wages of sin.

What's incredible about the cross and the resurrection is that because Christ paid the price for sin, it makes salvation a gift.

You receive a gift. That means someone else has already paid for it. And from the generosity of their heart, they offer it freely; as opposed to a note attached, requesting reimbursement. Nor, unlike some gifts, does it come with a disclaimer of "having an understanding" as if it were a gentleman's agreement.

It is UN-conditional. There is nothing of value from a finite individual that would satisfy an infinite God. Perhaps in His sovereignty God knew that fallen man would interfere. God is not willing that any should perish... so the only way to do guarantee that nothing stood in the way, was to keep salvation simple and free. 

Jesus set an unconditional precedent in His interaction with humanity during His time on earth.
Love. Forgiveness. Acceptance. Not for what is external and known. But for what is internal. And known only by God.

Sadly, the church, over time, has placed conditions. To be "a part"... actions, behaviors, attitudes, words, socioeconomic position, status....the superficial, the external. The church, has at times, overlooked the soul of humanity. The only part that matters in the end; that God cares about the most.

How can a church be effective if it fails to see people as God sees them? Broken. Damaged. On the verge of certain death. In need of spiritual rescue. In need of restoration into who He created them to be... in His image.

What a better thing to pray on this Easter, #effectiveSunday, that the church would show the love of Christ for humanity as He did, through the cross and resurrection; UN-conditionally. May God forgive the times, we as the church have dishonored Him, when we have looked down at others, visitors... perhaps said or did or passed by, as though they didn't belong... help us, God. May the church remember, Jesus left the throne room of heaven to taken on sin. From the prince, to the pauper and the pastors of them both, none of us belong. Pray this Easter Sunday, many come to experience the forgiveness of God, His love for their life and redemption through Christ's sacrifice. 

May the body of Christ exhibit Christ in ways that bring honor to Christ. For the cause of Christ.

Too much? No. One can never have too much of Christ. Happy Easter and God Bless, as you celebrate His life!

- PNC

With all the books, resources and websites on how to be more effective and efficient, one would think becoming and implementing the characteristics would be relatively easy. Maybe it's just me, but that doesn't seem to be the case.

For the individual, it can be challenging.
For the family... frustrating.
For an organization... daunting.
And for a church... divisive.

For reasons I don't fully understand, people seem to stay with employers and businesses that they may disagree with when it comes to policy and practice issues more than they stay with a church they disagree with. No organization or church, or family unity, for that matter, is perfect. Yet somehow, people part ways with the church easier and quicker than a company.

That said, it also seems easier for companies to implement best practices as they work towards becoming more effective and efficient. Buy-in for the corporate mission, excitement about the potential incentive or reward for having reached this accomplishment, loyalty to the brand or the people... whatever it is, you would think so same reasons for which most stay with companies as they change (and as easy as companies make it look), people would stick with churches as they go through a similar process.

Best practices and procedures are great, but in the end, what the thing(s) that will make an individual, family, and organizations more effective and efficient will be just a little bit different for them all. And figuring it out takes much... effort, patience, planning, 2nd, 3rd and 4th attempts, communication, grace for when you miss the mark, forgiveness for when others miss the mark and more.  All things that are easier said than done, right? Right.

Yet, none of that should detour any of us, wherever we find ourselves, from making the investment of going through this process and seeing it through to the desired results. Plus, it's a never-ending process, so understanding that there will be a few more changes to go through as time goes on will help.

Again... there's enough out there that makes it look and seem easy. Yet that's not the case. And for the church, eternity weighs in the balance. For those outside the church who may never be reached by not going through this process. For those inside the church that may walk away, depending on how a church handles going through this process.

It's cause for prayer.

Pray, this #effectiveSunday, for churches and the body of Christ, in their own lives, that are struggling to become more effective and efficient... whether it be to become all God has in store for us or to make a greater impact for the kingdom of God, may God help in the process of figuring out, specifically what works best for each situation. Pray that there would be a grace, as people go through this process, for when they are frustrated with themselves, for when they are upset with others. Pray for a unity of spirit and open communication as people work through the process... may they come out stronger, better and greater for the glory of God and the cause of Jesus Christ. May we be careful not to waste our time, talent and resources; but commit them to the Lord... to make the most of what has been entrusted to us. For His plans and purposes.

Effective. Efficient. As God is, for He wastes nothing. It is ALL used for His glory. He alone, makes it work out just that way.

- PNC

Think with me for a moment, just how quickly you are misunderstood, or misunderstand another person, while talking with someone... wait for it... face to face.

Almost hard to comprehend, when it seems every time you connect with someone in real life and close the conversation touch base with me later, it's through technology.  Facebook me or I.M. me. Do you have Skype? Message me on Twitter or accept my invitation to connect on LinkedIn. Or my favorite. we don't even ask people for their phone number any more with the intention of "when's a good time to call".
No... not even close. Just send me a text.

Seriously? First off all, you can't multi-task and text at the same time (even if you can text one-handed.) Unlike talking on the phone... which is why, eventually the entire for market switched to cordless!  And cellular, "wireless". 

Same difference.

If something can get "lost in translation" from one's mouth to the others' ears, how much more difficult on social media?

Extend this train of thought to yesterday's post on church and community.

Perhaps no two groups are more "at odds" than people who follow Christ and those who follow "no man" at all or someone other than Christ.

There are many groups of differing sides of a conversation that do every thing they can to understand each other, yet at the end of the day, simply agree to disagree and go on with their life, elsewhere with their business and far away from any reminders of the matter, should it come to that point.

Not so for Christians. Every group has people that, taken as a snap-shot, don't reflect well on the rest of the group, and ultimately for the believer, it's a reflection on Christ. So it's perceived the whole group is "bad", even though it's just more evidence of man's need for Christ. Our hearts tend towards self, even after salvation, which is why sanctification (becoming more like Christ) is a daily process. We must daily deny self.

But to the unbeliever... we are off-base, out-of-touch, evil, hateful, close-minded, intolerant...and the list is... far too long.
Talk about misunderstood.

No matter where you are in your relationship with God, you recognize you can't live life without Him.
No matter where you go in this world, you should recognize all the more, as you interact with those who still need Him, that sharing your faith and communicating effectively who Christ is and why He is needed in our lives now more than ever, is something you cannot do on your own strength and understanding.

Nothing gets by God without His knowledge or allowance. So whatever challenges the believer faces in their interaction with an unbelieving world, remember, God is aware of the struggle. He is actively at work in your life. He's allowing them to make their response, whatever it may be; however pleasantly dismissive, morally objectionable or surprising open to the possibility of Christ it may be. Just don't rely on your abilities.

Communicating the message of Jesus Christ requires the power of God to be active in the life of the believer, if the believer has any hope of rescuing the souls within their circle of influence from a Christ-less eternity.

Pray, this #effectiveSunday, in days where people are so easily misunderstood, words so quickly taken out of context and body language removed from the story altogether (thanks to on-line instead of in-person), pray a spirit of grace as communications take place; whether about faith or "just life". May the church realize and remember, how one talks about non-eternal subjects affects their credibility when they have opportunity to share Christ. Pray for those quick to dismiss Christians statements and opinions on any subject, based on experiences gone wrong in the past, either from previous Christians, previous churches or life circumstances that have "closed their hearts and minds" to God and His Son, Jesus Christ. Pray a fresh anointing upon the church for the times that lie ahead. Pray for this world, all too quick to point out the lies of others, but deny an absolute truth and the absolute, unconditional love of God.

Trust in God. Rely on Him. Call on Him. That this world would return to Him.
The next breath of ever person starts and ends on God's schedule.

- PNC